My skin needs help!!! Very oily and large pores!!! Any recommendations for good products?

I have VERY oily skin, which of course means I have very large pores. I would love to find a good product that would help cut the "greasy" appearance and also help to unclog pores,...and even help strink them!! I'm constantly getting clogged pores because of all the oil and it's so gross!!! I thought about starting to get regular facials, but honesly I'm not sure if I can afford that!! :-/ I would love any suggestions!!! I just hate the oil, it makes me very self conscience and I HATE that!!! I have to use oil absorbing sheets at least once a day, if not more! I'm sick of the "bumpy" feeling on my skin because of the clogged pores.